| The I Ching
says that when two elements
approach each other in such a way
that the scope of what they can
achieve together far surpasses
the total of what they could
achieve separately, they are
acting with synergy. Synergy, in
this case, takes the
effectiveness of cooperation
beyond normal expectations. A
synergistic approach to the
solving of any problem - or to
the accomplishment of any goal -
brings all the elements together,
with all the particulars
involved. We participate to
discuss, imagine, create, and
move forward in a way that is an
expression of truly giving
ourselves freely and completely,
acting with purpose, and with a
commitment to a desired result.
What I like about the I Ching
definition of synergy is that any
two or more elements can approach
each other in such a way that
miracles can happen. Any two
elements can be you and me, you
and your family, you and your
job. These elements can also be within
you - between you and your own
sense of purpose in the world, or
you and your commitment to a
better life for all people and
all living things.
What comes to my mind in
thinking about synergy has to do
with some experiences that I have
had many times over the years
through my music. There are
nights when I feel it is magic -
like every nuance, every subtlety
of music and lyric and heart and
spirit is felt by everyone in the
coliseum. Whether that is true or
not, who knows? It is just the
way I have felt.
On the other hand, there have
been nights - and this is more to
my point- when I really didn't
feel like I did a very good job.
I wasn't singing well, or maybe
my mind was somewhere else, and
it just didn't seem like I was
there. I used to beat myself up
pretty badly about that. Quite
often, however, I have heard from
people who said that on that
particular night their lives were
changed. Something happened that
was magic for them - and it
didn't matter how I felt.
I remember one particular
evening I had given a concert in
the southeastern United States.
It was really a tough night for
me. Tough though it was for me,
my perspective changed when I
learned what that concert meant
to some people who had come to
hear me sing. One family's story
moved me to tears. They had gone
through separation, divorce, and
several difficult years. The
family had been big fans of mine,
the children were raised on my
music, and - after all these
difficult times they had faced in
their lives - they had gathered
together for the first time in
years at my concert. They had to
deal with a lot of hassles even
to make it to the concert, but -
by being there together - they
felt like a family again for the
first time in years.
Another time, I heard from a
man in the midwestern United
States. His wife had had a
nervous breakdown. She had been
in the hospital for about ten
months in a very depressed
condition when her doctors felt
it would be safe for her to go
home to be with her family on
weekends. A big part of her
problem was that she was not able
to face what ever was at the
source of this depression. It was
locked up inside. On one of these
weekends, some friends invited
the family over for dinner.
During the course of the evening,
they played one of my albums. As
they sat listening to the album,
suddenly the woman began to cry.
In that evening and shortly
thereafter, she was somehow able
to release all of the fear,
frustration, and depression that
had been locked inside her. Her
husband considered this an
absolute miracle, and felt that
my music was a catalyst for this
release.
The point of these two stories
is that when I first started
singing and writing songs, I
realized then that I wanted to do
more than just entertain people.
I wanted to somehow touch them,
to be a reflection of their
lives. My commitment to this
shows whether I think I am doing
the job or not - as long as I go
about my business with as much
integrity and heart and spirit as
possible. Because of my
synergistic relationship with my
own vision, something from deep
down inside me comes through and
works.
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